05 Nov 2008 -
The first date is one of the most important thing in the beginning of a relationship. When you meet someone that you estimate, and then after the introductory period considered, you may be asked to take him to go out. No matter how many times you went out or have a relationship with the opposite sex, first date still to be one of the most significant momentum means, especially for the continuation of your relationship later. Therefore, the first date is still to be something that is considered “scary” for some teens, so they became worried and uneasy before the day of H. But, you do not need to fear. The first date can always be fun, and certainly easy. Here are a series of tips you can follow: An unplanned date would be more successful than the new show date was decided at the last moment. Clarify the date, time and place, and things will be done, such as watching where, what time, what movie, and so on. Arrive on time! This is often the thing that makes us feel your date’s first upset, so the date was actually a nightmare. Arriving late also can show that you are less trustworthy. If you are dating would be late because it had to, tell him and why, do not let him wait without knowing what was happening.
# Watch your clothes. Wear what makes you feel comfortable. No need to wear new clothes or dress up excess (waste of money and time). Clothes are clean and fit for you, it is necessary only for appearance.
# If your date praised the look, do not directly deny it or even said anything derogatory about you. Let’s just say thank you with a smile.
# Focus your attention only to him. Do not let your eyes darting around there. Remember that you yourself did not want to be treated that way.
# Remember to relax. Remember that dating is meant for fun. Smile at all times. A smile not only shows you are an interesting person and fun, but also can make you and he also felt more calm.
# Show some interest in your date. Do not be afraid to ask, because this date was aimed to know him better, and if you both fit or not.
# Be respectful at all times. Respect the opinions, needs, and the boundaries he set. Never force him to approve what you think or do things that he does not want.
# Remember to always be yourself! Once you pretend or say unnecessary kebohonga, you will have to do it continuously. Confident attitude will make it smooth and keep you from feeling nervous or tense.
# Do not just stuck on the outside appearance. Consider what is “inside”. You could have wasted a great person and really suits you, if you are not satisfied with the trigger outward appearance.
# Avoid talking too much, though to avoid the silence. Let’s just silence as a normal thing in a conversation (because it’s true!). Talking too much will actually make you look nervous, not confident, seem contrived, and so on. Let the conversation amongst you with a natural flow.
# No need to fixed on the topics you both enjoy. Let him talk about his favorite topic. Besides you could know more about him, you can also add the knowledge you? When he was talking, do not immediately interrupted, and really listen to it without thinking about what you should say in return.
# Expand your knowledge. If he’s the type of person who likes the news, there’s no harm in reading the newspapers, magazines, watch TV, and so on. Latest news can always be an interesting topic to discuss together
